Meditation is a deeply personal journey, and no two individuals experience it in exactly the same way. While guided meditations can be a helpful starting point, they often come with limitations—like assumptions about your emotional state or guidance that doesn’t resonate. You might be given guidance towards (or away from) things led by the practitioner that might not be as effective as if you (or your inner being) was in charge of the guidance.
Here’s a list of common issues people might face with guided meditations:
1. Misalignment with Personal Preferences
• Voice Tone or Accent: The guide’s voice may be unpleasant, distracting, or triggering for the listener. • Pacing Issues: The meditation might feel too rushed or too slow, pulling the participant out of the experience.
2. Guidance Conflicts
• Unhelpful Visualisations: The guide’s imagery may not resonate or may evoke unwanted emotions (e.g., a beach visualisation for someone afraid of water). • Inappropriate Prompts: Suggestions might conflict with the participant’s personal beliefs, emotions, or needs.
3. Over-Reliance on the Guide
• Dependent Practice: Relying on guided meditations may limit one’s ability to meditate independently, making it harder to build self-trust in their inner guidance.
4. Distracting Content
• Background Sounds: Music, sound effects, or ambient noises may feel intrusive or overly stimulating. • Too Much Talking: Constant guidance can prevent the listener from experiencing true stillness or silence.
5. Lack of Personalisation
• Generic Scripts: One-size-fits-all meditations may not address individual needs, goals, or states of being. • Cultural Mismatch: Some meditations may not resonate due to cultural or spiritual differences.
6. Technical or Environmental Disruptions
• Volume Issues: A guide’s voice being too loud or too quiet can break the flow. • Interruptions: Notifications or poorly-timed pauses can disrupt focus.
7. Judgment or Pressure
• Feeling “Wrong”: Participants might feel judged or inadequate if they don’t follow the guidance as instructed. • Performance Anxiety: Pressure to achieve specific outcomes (e.g., feeling calm or visualising perfectly) can detract from the practice.
8. Triggers of Negative Emotions
• Unprocessed Trauma: Some prompts might inadvertently stir unresolved emotions or past experiences. • Unrealistic Positivity: Overly optimistic guidance can feel dismissive or invalidating to someone in a challenging emotional state.
9. Mismatch of Energy or Style
• High Energy vs. Low Energy: A meditation aimed at energising may overwhelm someone seeking relaxation, and vice versa. • Unnatural Scripts: Overly dramatic or insincere delivery can feel off-putting.
10. Accessibility Issues
• Language Barriers: Guided meditations in a language or jargon the participant doesn’t fully understand can detract from the experience. • Cost or Availability: Quality guided meditations may be inaccessible to some due to cost or limited options.
These are just some of the reasons why personalizing your meditation practice can be so empowering. Meditations that feel like they’re guided by your own inner being have more potential to feel liberating and expansive. By tailoring your experience to suit your unique needs, you can come into deeper alignment, and feel a much greater sense of satisfaction.
Empower Your Practice: A Guide to Choosing or Creating Your Own Self-Guided Meditations
Here are some tips to help you choose or even create your own self-guided meditations, with useful alignment prompts to inspire your process.
1. Start with Your Emotional State
Every meditation experience is enhanced when it meets you where you are emotionally. Before you begin, take a moment to tune into how you’re feeling. Are you stressed, neutral, excited, calm, or something else? Knowing your starting point allows you to select or create a meditation that gently supports your next best feeling.
“Take a deep breath. How are you feeling in this moment? Without judgment, simply notice. Now ask yourself, where would you like to go from here?”
2. Define Your Intention
What do you want to get out of your meditation? Clarity? Relaxation? A burst of creativity? Having a clear intention can guide the tone and structure of your practice. For example, if your goal is relaxation, your meditation might focus on soothing imagery and slow breathing. If your goal is empowerment, you might focus on energetic chants and uplifting music.
“What’s your intention for this practice? Let a single word or feeling rise to the surface. Hold it gently in your awareness.”
3. Choose the Right Atmosphere
The environment you create sets the stage for your meditation. Do you prefer silence, gentle background music, or nature sounds? Experiment with different elements to see what resonates. If you’re crafting your own meditation, think about what sounds and surroundings would support your intention.
“Imagine the perfect environment for this moment. What do you hear? Feel? See? Let this atmosphere surround you now.”
4. Use Personalised Affirmations
One way to make a meditation uniquely yours is by incorporating affirmations or phrases that mean something to you. They soothe, relax, or calm you. These could be as simple as “I am at ease” or as specific as “I trust myself to make aligned choices.” If you’re using a guided meditation platform, look for one that allows you to input your own affirmations, or try recording your voice speaking these words with intention.
“Repeat after me: I can feel better now. I trust in the flow of my life. I am guided.”
5. Keep It Neutral When Needed
Sometimes, less is more. A common pitfall of guided meditations is overly prescriptive guidance. For example, being told to “release fear” when you’re not feeling fear can create resistance. Neutral prompts like “notice what arises” or “allow yourself to simply be” can create a more supportive and open experience.
“Whatever arises now is perfect as it is. Let it pass through like a cloud in the sky.”
6. Embrace Silence
Guided meditations often fill every moment with words, leaving little room for your inner voice to be heard. Consider building pauses or silent stretches into your practice. These moments of stillness can be just as powerful as spoken direction.
“Take a moment to simply breathe. Feel the natural rhythm of your breath and rest here for a while.”
7. Allow for Flexibility
Your needs may change from day to day, and that’s okay. One day, you might crave a 5-minute breath-focused meditation, while another day, you might need a 30-minute deep dive into visualisation. By staying flexible and responsive to your current state, you can keep your practice fresh and meaningful.
“There is no right or wrong way to meditate. Follow what feels best for you today.”
8. Reflect and Adjust
After each session, take a moment to reflect. What worked? What didn’t? This reflection helps you fine-tune your approach and build a practice that truly aligns with your preferences and goals.
“How do you feel now compared to when you began? What small adjustment might make your next meditation even better?”
9. Experiment with Text Prompts
If you’re using a platform that allows for text input (like Vital’s feature), be specific about what you want. For example, you might write, “I want to feel calm and centred, with a focus on thankfulness.” If you’re unsure, use suggested prompts or ask yourself an empowering question: “What would feel best right now?”
“What do you need most in this moment? Speak it softly to yourself or write it down.”
10. Trust Your Inner Being
Finally, remember that you’re the ultimate authority on your meditation practice. Trust your inner being to guide you toward what feels best. Even if you use guided meditations, stay attuned to what resonates and release anything that doesn’t.
“You are the expert on you. Let your inner wisdom guide you to exactly what you need.”
Final Thoughts
By taking an active role in shaping your meditation practice, you’ll create experiences that feel more aligned and effective. Whether you choose an app, write your own meditation, or simply sit in silence, remember: the magic lies in what feels good to you. Trust that, and your meditation practice will always be uniquely yours. We trust these words from A Guide to Creating or Choosing Self-Guided Meditations, will Empower Your Practice and male meditating even more enjoyable.
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Which word is most like how you feel, and what you need right now?
